A Sacred Play Journey

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Sat, Jun 24 - DESIRE NYC
Sat, Sep 2 - DESIRE Amsterdam Sleepover!


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What is DESIRE?

*Photos from one of our New York locations.

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A safe, structured, sexy space for consensually exploring your desire.

Held in an upscale location, surrounded by the warmth of love and community. Join us for a ceremonial approach to sensuality.

Whether you get your exhibitionist on, enjoy a cuddle or a convo, or bask in the love blanket... it's all about tuning to your desire.

You are always 100% at choice. We'll demonstrate and practice consent & negotiation skills so we can have a common language in fulfilling our desires.

What to expect
  • Cacao
  • Meditation
  • Consent review and practice
  • Embodiment practice
  • Free play!
There is both a facilitated portion of the evening to get us all in the mood and connected, and there is free play to explore your desire!

What to bring?
We will provide cacao, snacks, activities to get the night off to a sexy start and items for healthy play. You'll want to bring a towel, favorite toys or lube, and any outfits that turn you on.

Arrivals begin at the published start time. Doors will close 30 minutes after. That's when we'll begin with a Tantra-themed opening circle, create a safe container together (which will include discussion and practice of consent and event rules) and share our desires. There will be some group guided activities (movement, connection games, etc) so we can get more connected. The group activity then opens up for free play, where you'll have approximately 3 hours to explore your desire. Afterwards, we'll gather for integration to share our discoveries, gratitudes, and favorite moments.

*This is a sober event - no alcohol allowed before or during. No one will be permitted if inebriated.

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Covid Testing Resources

While the only way to eliminate risk of Covid is to stay home, we can minimize risk with testing. Below are our general testing requirements in the USA. (*These may change based on local guidance, so check with your host.)

We ask that you provide:

  1. A negative covid test taken within 24hrs of the event.

A home test taken the morning-of or as close to the event start time as possible is preferred. (Must adhere to our Covid Home Test Guidelines)

You may not attend this event if you have tested positive for Covid, have been near someone who has tested positive in the last 3 days, or if you have Covid-like symptoms. Please let us know so we can refund or transfer your ticket until you're feeling better. And thank you for taking responsible action to protect our community.

Submit a Home Test

Home tests must follow our home test guidelines or will not be eligible.

Where to Test in New York

There are many places to get tested in New York City, some for free. We have a List of Testing Resources here.

Apply for Membership

DESIRE is a members-only event. To apply, do these two things:

1. Subscribe to our Newsletter

Make sure to whitelist [email protected] because we WILL end up in spam. Yes, with "tantra" in our email sadly this happens all the time. And then you'll miss that beautiful glowing smile you'll have when you get an email from us that says "You're in!"

2. Submit Application

*NOTE: You must be invited by an existing member. Make sure to list their full name. If we don't recognize the member, your application will be discarded.

What People Say

"This was the best night of my life! This is a sacred experience. It felt like a medicine ceremony but it was totally a sober experience. To feel the goodness of my own body was it's own medicine! I felt very safe and empowered! You do or you don't, whatever it is that you please, whatever your desire, it's all good! The whole event was amazing. I didn't wanna leave. It's been 4 days since, and I feel I still haven't left, haha, I don't ever want to leave the place I feel I've just arrived to... So healing. So humbling. I want to go back!" —Emily

"A safe, non judgmental environment with clear boundaries, filled with gentle sensual spirits focused on intimacy and connection." —Leland

"Saying yes to this event will open you to getting to know yourself better and allow you to explore your natural sensual curiosity. If this idea feels a little out of your "comfort zone" then I encourage you say yes and explore this beauty-filled container alongside other amazing humans!" —Christi

"Prepare to be held with great care as you explore your primal and sensual desires in a community of lovers." —Sue